While it is easy to notice some people and pinpoint their addictions, there are others who are completely closeted about it. For those people it is even more dangerous as they do not let you into their lives enough for you to understand. With closeted addicts, you do not see them or hear about them abusing any sort of substance since they are not very public about it. Unless they can admit the addiction to themselves and get some much needed help, it will be hard for you to notice them. Here are two common traits of a closeted addict.
* In the case of a closeted alcohol addict, you will know that they enjoy their drinks just as much as anyone but what you don’t see it that when they are back at home, in their own comfort zone, they become regular drinkers. If you constantly smell alcohol on your friends and family and they always seem to have an excuse for it, chances are they are hiding something. Speak to them and let them know how you feel and offer them your help.
* Addiction to drugs is another thing that most friends and family members will miss about a person. A closeted drug addict will not let you see their bad habit and for their soul purpose of finding company they will seek people you do not know. They will always have an excuse to stay away from events unless they have no choice but to attend. In order to help them, you need to first find out about their addiction and the only way to do it, is to follow them. Pay them a visit whenever you can and eventually you will notice their habits. Follow your suspicions as they are often correct. Help will save their life so as a good friend try to get them the help they need.
